Friday, May 26, 2006
Beach Blogging
Now, that was nice!

Tomorrow morning, the FW and I leave for our annual trip to Corolla, NC for a week at the beach. We share a huge beach house with a bunch of our close friends. Today, in preparation, I went and got my 1st pedicure! Yep, I got all metrosexual today.
For my birthday last December, the FW bought me a gift certificate to The Grooming Lounge, a men's salon downtown. It was for what's called "The Executive Foot Treatment", Eliminate the “agony of de-feet” with this exclusive foot treatment highlighted by a dip in warm paraffin wax. Now, my feet are okay for a man, especially for a man who's played soccer for 30+ years, but I've never, ever had a pedicure. Never even thought of getting one. Well, after today, I just may become addicted.
When I walked through the door of The Grooming Lounge, I knew it was the place for me. Leather chairs, plasma TVs, sports magazines, basically every guys fantasy (did I mention that all the women who work there are hotties?). As I sat waiting for my appointment, they brought me a beer in a frosted mug! Yeah!! For the pedicure, I was seated in a big leather chair with massage controls and a foot bath. I bore you with the details of the treatment, but it was awesome. My feet have never looked or felt better. Guys, if you live in the DC area, get yourself over to The Grooming Lounge ASAP!!
Monday, May 22, 2006
Another reason to love Arsenal!
A 10-year-old boy from Sunderland, England, was reportedly saved by his rugged Arsenal replica jersey. John Hough was climbing a fence when he slipped on a spike that pierced his chest, just missing his heart and lungs, but somehow failed to penetrate the shirt. Doctors apparently credit the sturdy fabric with helping to prevent the spike from doing more damage. Said the boy's mother, "The first thing he said when he came round from his operation was: 'Mam, I can't believe my Arsenal strip is ruined.' But it wasn't and it saved his life."
Friday, May 19, 2006
He's Staying!!!

Henry set for new deal after committing future to Arsenal
Thierry Henry will be staying at Arsenal Football Club.
There has been speculation about the striker’s future all season but on Friday morning he stated his intention to sign a new contract with the Club.
Arsenal.com will have much on this story later today.
Thursday, May 18, 2006
Wednesday, May 17, 2006
I'm just gutted
Regardless, I'm so proud of the Gunners. This has been a very difficult year for them, dealing with numerous injuries, the loss of their talismatic captain, and the speculation regarding the future of Thierry Henry. But they never gave up and were just a few minutes away from being crowned champions of Europe. Congratulations to Barca, and now we just have a few weeks until the World Cup.
This is it
It's like Christmas Eve for me, or the morning before my wedding. That's how nervous I am. What am I nervous about? Arsenal have finally made it to the Champions League Final, and play an awesome Barcelona for the chance to be crowned Kings of Europe. I'm leaving work early, headed over to the Lucky Bar on Connecticut Avenue to watch the match. Actually, I'm so nervous I just may go home and watch it by myself.
Let's go you Gunners!!!
Monday, May 15, 2006
WTF?
Friday, May 12, 2006
Told you so
So, does anyone still think Porter Goss resigned because of policy differences?
Tuesday, May 09, 2006
I'm back
In other news, in an incredibly exciting last day of the season, Arsenal had to have a better result than their hated rivals Spurs to finish in 4th place and make next season's Champions League. They did it, in the last ever game at Highbury Stadium, home of The Arsn'l for 93 years, beating Wigan 4-2, behind a Thierry Henry hattrick and Spurs losing 2-1 at West Ham. A glorious day (though Spurs want their game replayed - it seems most of their team got sick the night before the game - boo hoo).
Monday, May 01, 2006
Friday, April 28, 2006
Remember this picture in 2008
For my bud in Sri Lanka

This is for my buddy Leo, now chillin' with his wife in Sri Lanka. Last spring, Leo introduced me to an incredible band - Nickel Creek (I wrote about it last year). He took me to a show of theirs at the Birchmere and it was incredible. They're classified as bluegrass, but I don't think they really fit one simple genre, as this sound clip and video of them covering "Toxic" by Britney Spears shows.
I just got their most recent album, "Why Should The Fire Die?" yesterday, and it's fantastic.
Here's to you Leo!
PS - have I mentioned that I own a mandolin? 2 actually. Gotta learn how to play them this spring
Thursday, April 27, 2006
Old friends

I got an e-mail Monday night from one of my oldest friends, Mike Rendino. When I say oldest, I really mean it - we met in 2nd grade! My family moved not long afterwards, but we reconnected in high school and went to college together as well. Anyway, he was in town for a few days (he recently moved to Charlotte) and had an extra ticket for the Nats game Tuesday night vs. the Reds. We had a great time, and ran into another old friend, Shaun Mohler, who was in my suite 1st year at UVa - 20 years ago! Here's a pic Rendino took with his phone - not the best shot, but who cares, we had a great time!
New bloggin location

Sorry for the lack of posts lately - work has been incredibly busy. Did I mention I got promoted a month ago? Anyway, I've been crazy busy with work, the new home, soccer, etc. But I've got alot of stuff to write about, and I will very soon. But for now, here's a pic of my new, super secret, blogging location.
More soon.
Thursday, April 20, 2006
Perfect Weather


The weather in DC today is perfect, so I decided to walk the 4 blocks from my office to the White House with my new camera, to see if I'd find anything interesting. And I did - hundreds of people protesting the visit of China's president Hu Jintao. They were protesting China's deployment of hundreds of nuclear-capable missiles aimed at the Republic of China (Taiwan) and call on Dubya to invite Taiwanese leaders for official visits to the United States. Like that's going to happen. Anyway, here are a few pictures.
Saturday, April 15, 2006
How My Dog Spends His Day
Wednesday, April 12, 2006
Update on the Crazy Neighbor
Dumbfounded
I work for a very progressive political organization and it sickens me that someone who works here can have such a mindset. The question is, what should I do, if anything? Like I said, I told her that her facts were wrong and that you can substitute "black" for "immigrant" and it's the same thing racists have been saying about us forever. I'm just in total shock.
Monday, April 10, 2006
Welcome to the Neighborhood
It was around 8:00 Saturday morning and I was headed back from taking our dog Kaleb for a walk. It was cold and rainy and I noticed the lady who lives across from us outside doing gardening. She saw me headed to my front door and came over saying "You know, they have trash cans around for your dog", "Yeah, I know". "Then why do you have that trash can on your porch"? Now, we have a small (around 8 inches high) receptacle we use to put Kaleb's baggies in after we take him for a walk - hardly a trash can. "Um, because I don't see why I have to walk 1/4 mile to throw this away". "Because it's against the rules" she wined. "Well, we've lived in ParkFairfax (0ur community) for over 3 years, and we've always had this receptacle. As a matter of fact, if you walk around, you'll see that everyone who has a dog has some sort of container on their front steps". "It's the rules", she repeated. "And why do you have a child's potty on your porch?". "What?" I said. "You have a child's potty on your porch and that's also against the condo rules". She was pointing to a planter we have on our front step that my mother-in-law gave us. It's basically a very small bench with a flower pot in the seat. It is not, by any stretch, a child's potty. Unless the child is the size of a baby doll, in which case, it wouldn't be using a potty, would it? "Ma'am, that's not a potty, it's a planter my mother-in-law gave us", "No it's not, it's a potty and it's against the rules". Now, I was really getting pissed off now. "Is this how you welcome people to the neighborhood? We've been here 2 weeks and you haven't said a word to us. Not a "Hi, how are you". Nothing. And you come up to me and start bitching about a goddamned planter?" "It's against the rules and if you don't like it, you can move". This is when I lost it. "This is my God damned house that I just bought. No one tells me where I can or can't live!! Are you crazy? Look at all of the shit you've got on your porch! I'm sure it's against the rules for you to have that craptacular lawn furniture sitting in front of your house!!!" By this time, my fabulous Wife heard my rising voice and came outside. "What's wrong honey", she asked. "Nothing, just talking to this crazy-ass neighbor of ours" I said in a very loud whisper. My FW hushed me and told me to go inside while she talked to the crazy lady. "What's the problem?" she said. "Nothing personal, I just don't like what you have on your porch" crazy lady responded. "Well, we like and it's staying" said the FW. With that, she came back inside and proceeded to try and calm me down. But the calmer I got, the more upset she got over total rudeness of crazy lady. Seriously, I'll have to post some pictures of the tacky shit she's got outside.
The coolest thing about the incident, is how I was channeling my dad. I've seen him go off on people for doing stupid shit - and after I got inside, I realized that I sounded just like him! Pretty neat.
The joys of being a homeowner!
Wednesday, April 05, 2006
Dang, I hate it when I have a life!
Thursday, March 30, 2006
Just in case you forgot...
Liberals Ended Slavery, Won women’s right to vote, Ended Segregation, Passed Civil Rights Act, Passed Voting Rights Act, Passed Social Security, Passed Medicare, Passed the Clean Air Act, Passed the Clean Water Act.
'nuff said.
Wednesday, March 29, 2006
Don't faint, Dad, but I think I'm going to church on Sunday.
On Immigration and the Media
1. The vast majority of Hispanics/Latinos in the U.S. (75 percent of us) were born and raised here, including many of us who have roots here that predate the arrival of the pilgrims.
2. "Immigrant" is not synonymous with "Latino" and the media should stop pretending they mean the same thing.
3. The CNN analyst who said today "Keep in mind, Latino voters are LEGAL immigrants, not illegal immigrants" should be FIRED for sloppy thinking. MOST LATINOS ARE NOT IMMIGRANTS AT ALL, PINCHE CABRON.
4. Immigrants to contemporary USA come from EVERYWHERE. There are, for instance, 100,000 Nigerians in Houston, and tens of thousands of ILLEGAL Irish in Boston. If this debate is truly about immigration, as opposed to racist portrayals of Latinos, please curb your coverage to be more responsible.
5. Just because someone waves a Mexican or Colombian flag at a peaceful demonstration does not mean the demonstration is a "riot" or the people unAmerican. Lou Dobbs should get his panties out of a knot and realize it is no different than someone waving an Irish flag in Southie or an Italian flag in Queens. These flags are not waved as proof of national allegiance; they are waved in solidarity with a person's cultural heritage.
6. You can be a Mexican American and never have had an ancestor come over the US border; vast portions of the United States of today USED TO BE MEXICO or SPAIN. If you failed to learn this in high school, your teachers should be fired.
7. The vast majority of Hispanics/Latinos in the US speak English as a first language. The Pew Center for Hispanic research shows that by the third generation, all Latin American immigrant descendents - 100 percent of them - are English-first, English dominant. Zero percent speak Spanish as a first or primary language by the third generation.
8. The US has TWO international borders, not ONE. To date, not a single terrorist has gotten to the US through Mexico; to date, at least two suspected terrorists have arrived here through Canada. In fact, I would not be surprised if, while the media and xenophobes are focused on the Mexican border, terrorists figure out that it might be a good idea to walk over from Vancouver to Seattle for a latte.
9. Not all Hispanics/Latinos are Mexican or of Mexican origin in the U.S., and most people of Mexican extraction in the US were born in the UNITED STATES.
10. Please check for plans to give Haliburton the contract to build a wall along the Mexican border before caving in to the right-wing propaganda about a "crisis" in immigration from Mexico.
11. Please be careful when you discuss these issues not to stereotype or overgeneralize. The anti-Latino frenzy you're creating is leading to a racist backlash against tens of millions of native-born Americans who happen to have Spanish names.
12. The following are also Spanish names: California, Arizona, Florida, Los Angeles, Sacramento, San Diego. Why does CNN allow states, cities and rivers with Spanish names to be American, while disallowing American people with Spanish names the same right...?
13. Please tell us what the problems are that are caused by illegal immigrants. Don't just say there is a "debate". Tell us in concrete terms what the risks and dangers are being brought to the US by "illegal" immigrants. Can't find any? Thought so.
14. Please remember that the least legal and least assimilable of American immigrants were...the English. And the only people who can claim to be true "Americans" are Native Americans.
15. Most Mexicans are Native Americans.
16. Shut up about this non-issue and get back to BEING JOURNALISTS, covering the REAL issues, like the illegal war in Iraq and the lies that got us there; the record-setting trade deficit; Bush's bankrupting of America; NSA's illegal wiretapping of American citizens; the fact that our public schools are MORE segregated than they were before Brown vs. the Board of Education; the fact that we as a nation have now slipped to having only the 27th freest press in the world; the Plame leak and the consequences of it being that Americans are much less safe than we were before Cheney and his friends played "revenge"; the disappearance of the American middle class and unions; the sorry state of the FAA; the rapid devaluation of the American dollar on the world market thanks to idiot leaders; the dismantling of the endangered species act by our administration; the rapid and unprecedented rise of a white underclass (the fastest rise in poor whites in American history has occurred under Bush); the enormous and growing gap between rich and poor in America.
Tuesday, March 28, 2006
How Many Have To Die?
How Many Have to Die?
I was talking to a friend of mine,
and he sighed with a tear in his eye,
he said, "sometimes when I,
sit back and stare at that
tell-lie-vision, i'm mesmerized by
his evil eyes, and the lies they tell our children,
and i'm hypnotized by his sneaky smile,
but all the while,
I wonder, how many have to die?"
he said, "i try to justify and find pride
in a woman with skin like mine rising so high,
on that, so called, ladder of success,"
he said, "i must confess, i guess,
that in a humanitarian effort contest,
Oprah would take first prize,
because, see, Condaleeza Rice is yet to stand tall and hold her head high,
and tell the world that her best seller- her boss
is full of lies.
and well, I'm sorry,” he spoke,
“We can but only learn more from James Frey,
When reading between the lines,
‘Just hold on’ when you feel the fury rise
Waiting at gas pumps for high priced lies
This administration so,so full of pride,
corporate media pleading and programming your mind
from both sides.
While each day more and more children die.
And a mother cries
On His front lawn,
Osama supposedly still hides
While football stars serve as pawns,"
my friend continued, "you gotta' wonder what the hell is going on?"
He said he cries some nights wondering...
"how many have to die?"
I sighed,
Felt a tear come to my eye
And replied,
“you’re quite right,
this president of whom you speak
is so full of evil. of Hate. Of Deceit. And so very full of lies.”
I became quite sad,
listening to my friend,
I reflected for a moment,
let it all soak in,
I guess
The pendulum will someday swing,
With the will of the masses,
but until we the people, the powerful, the peaceful,
decide to say no-
get up,
stand up-
unite as one,
stand firm against all facists,
then and only then
is when- mothers, brothers, sisters and fathers,
on each side of this irrational struggle for control,
will ever know peace.
So people please,
i beg of you,
I plead to you,
to look deep within your soul
listen to what you know,
we’ve got to take control!
we've got to say no!
No, we cant have this no more!
Go home and look yourself in the eye,
ask yourself why?
then maybe you can answer,
how many have to die?
Saturday, March 25, 2006
Just about done
Wednesday, March 22, 2006
Take a deep breath and smile
As I posted earlier - we're moving this weekend and I'm very stressed out. I don't know why moving has this effect on me, but it does and I have to deal with it. I'm also crazy-busy at work, so I'm not the most fun person to be around right now. That being said, this song always makes me feel good - it's from a CD I bought a million years ago in college. The song is "You Make Me Smile" by Dave Koz. Take a listen, you'll be happy you did.
Sunday, March 19, 2006
I Hate Moving
Tuesday, March 14, 2006
You never know who you'll see
Sunday, March 05, 2006
Things NOT to do with your dog
Monday, February 27, 2006
Sunday, February 26, 2006
Why?
Some say it's because pot has a high abuse potential. Marijuana law is based on the Controlled Substances Act, which classifies certain drugs in various schedules based on how dangerous they are. Schedule 1 is for:
Drugs with high abuse potential and no accepted medical use in the United States.
Well, here's what the US Government says:
Although few users of marijuana develop
dependence, some do. But they appear
to be less likely to do so than users
of other drugs (including alcohol and
nicotine), and marijuana dependence
appears to be less severe than
dependence on other drugs." (National
Institute of Medicine (IOM). Marijuana
and Medicine: Assessing the Science
Base. National Academy Press. Washington
DC, 1999
So, here's the logic the DEA uses in criminalizing pot:
*Marijuana is illegal (because it has a high potential for abuse).
*People who use an illegal drug are abusing it by definition (theirs).
*Lots of people use marijuana.
*Therefore, there is a high potential for abuse and it should remain illegal.
Now, what about this part "...no accepted medical use in the United States." ? Um, haven't several states passed laws legalizing the medicinal use of pot? Just trying to figure this shit out - doesn't make much sense to me.
Wednesday, February 22, 2006
What Happens When You Come In 2nd On The Apprentice?
Tuesday, February 21, 2006
Guess Hoos got a winning record in the ACC?
Wednesday, February 15, 2006
Australian TV Releases New Abu Ghraib Photos
Warning, these photos are pretty graphic.
the SBS Dateline program plans to broadcast about 60 previously unpublished
photographs that the US Government has been fighting to keep secret in a court
case with the American Civil Liberties Union.
Although a US judge last year granted the union access to the photographs following a freedom-of-information request, the US Administration has appealed against the decision on the grounds
their release would fuel anti-American sentiment. Some of the photos are similar to those published in 2004, others are different. They include photographs of six corpses, although the circumstances of their deaths are not clear. There are also pictures of what appear to be burns and wounds from shotgun pellets.
Tuesday, February 14, 2006
Oops
Sunday, February 12, 2006
Listen up!
Beautiful
Saturday, February 11, 2006
What up, Sri Lanka?
Thursday, February 09, 2006
Nike finally gets it

When you think of soccer here in the States, you probably think of middle class kids, driven to games by their parents in minivans or Volvo wagons. And the soccer haters in the sports press harp on this all of the time - either it's elitist or it's too foreign. Meanwhile, in every other country, soccer (football) is the sport of the working class - holding the same niche that hoops does here. Nike finally seems to have realized this, and their new ad campaign for US Soccer features baller Clint Dempsey of the New England Revolution back home in Houston, with Deuce, XO and Da Beatzsmith. Check it out here. If we're ever going to win the World Cup, we need to tap into our urban youth - black, brown and white.
Wednesday, February 08, 2006
Tuesday, February 07, 2006
More on the Cartoons
The Flash!
You are The Flash
| Fast, athletic and flirtatious. |
Monday, February 06, 2006
House Hunting, Part II
Why the outrage now?
By now, everyone's seen the images of angry Muslims burning Danish embassies, all because of a cartoon they feel is disrespectful to Islam. But did you know the cartoons were published way back in September, 2005? Why are people in the Islamic world now outraged? What took so long for them to be pissed off? Read this interesting piece from the a Daily Kos diarist for an explanation.
Wednesday, February 01, 2006
House Hunting
We live in Alexandria, just across the river from DC (my commute is only 25 minutes or so - it's 6 miles from our front door to my office), so housing costs are absolutely ridiculous, unless you live in Manhattan or San Francisco. Hard to tell my relatives that yes, we may end up spending 1/2 a million or more on a home. That just looks and sounds obscene, doesn't it?
State of The Union
Am I a Snob?
First of all, kudos to all involved in planning our 20 year reunion. I know it can't be easy. That being said, I've just looked at the website for the company assisting in the planning, www.greatreunions.com and see that the cost is going to be $89 a person. Not a big deal, except that it's being held at the VFW Hall. I noticed that Falls Church High is having their reunion, for the same price, at a Marriott, and Lake Braddock is having there's for less at the Hilton in Arlington.
A few months ago, some friends and I e-mailed our former classmates in charge of the reunion, asking them why they decided to hold it at the Dale City VFW Hall. We were told it was to keep the cost down. Um, that doesn't seem to be true. Am I a snob for wanting my 20th reunion held someplace nice and with a little class?
Thursday, January 26, 2006
Liberal/Conservative Question?
I'm a liberal, will be a liberal until the day I die. I have very close friends who are very prominent in the Pro-choice movement. And I have very close friends and family members who are very much against abortion. But I just don't see why it's so friggin' important to either side. Either you get one or you don't (which I guess is the pro-choice argument). And I know that many pro-choice activist say it isn't about abortion per se, but about privacy rights and a woman's control over her own body. Fine. And I get why people who believe that life begins at conception get so upset. But why can't we just agree that we disagree? Why is it the end all/be all of political fights?
I think alot of conservative politicians are privately a bit scared of the thought of abortion being outlawed if Alito gets on the bench. What will get their base out to vote? Oh yeah, gay marriage. Let's get power through fear, folks! Sorry for my rambling - it's been a long, long week.
Monday, January 23, 2006
Big Deal
Why is everyone sniffing Kobe Bryant's jock? So he scored 18 points, big friggin' deal. What? He scored 81? Holy shit! Yeah, that's pretty damned impressive. Never mind.
(note to self - start wearing leggings while playing hoops)
Friday, January 20, 2006
Just want to point out
Today's Rant
I don't care if they came from another country, from Baltimore, or Alabama - they need to be able to communicate with the public. C'mon, people. If I moved to Moscow and got a job at the Red Square McDonald's, I'd be expected to speak Russian, right?
Last night, I was going through the drive through of McDonald's and placed a very simple order - 2 doublecheesburgers and a large order of fries (healthy, huh?). I should have known something was up when they didn't repeat my order with the price, but just said drive around to the 1st window. At the 1st window, a very nice, elderly gentleman from somewhere in South Asia (India, Pakistan, Sri Lanka, Bangladesh) asked what I ordered, so I told him. Now, normally when you get to the 1st window, they just tell you how much you owe and take your cash. Anyway, he looked confused, walked away and disappeared for about 2 minutes. He came back and said go to the next window. Now, I'm really confused about what's going on. I mean, I hadn't paid for anything and something seemed really wrong. So I go to the next window and the girl (yes, I said girl, not woman. She couldn't have been more than 15 years old) asked me in a very heavy accent what I ordered. I repeated my order "2 double cheeseburgers and an order of large fries", with obvious irritation in my voice. She then asked me another question, and I couldn't understand a word she said. "Excuse me?" She repeated whatever she said again. "I can't understand you," I said. Now, this should have been the point where she went and got a manager or co-worker who speaks English. Instead she rolled her eyes, sighed in the way that only teenagers can, and handed me a bag. "$5" she says. I handed over the cash and drove off. While sitting at the light, a small lightbulb went off in my head - "How the hell could my order have been $5? 2 dbl. cheeseburgers are $1.00 each. There's no way my fries cost $3.00". I looked in my bag for the receipt and sure enough, she gave me the wrong order. Now I was really pissed. Not so much that my order's wrong, but at the entire transaction. I made a u-turn and headed back to Mickey D's. At the counter, I told the manager that I received the wrong order from the drive thru. The girl who gave me the order starts saying "It's too hard, it's too hard" and pointed at what I guessed was the screen telling her what the orders are. Anyway, the manager gave me the correct order and started taking the order from the person behind me. "Excuse me", I said, "but my order should have been $3.79 plus tax, not $5.00". He looked at me like I was the one speaking a different language (I guess I was), then rings up my order - it was $4.09. Now, I'm no math genius, but it seems like very simple arithmetic - I gave you $5, the price was $4.09, the change is .91. Nope, Einstein had to go back to the office, get a pencil, and do the math on my receipt. I'm talking the whole 9 yards - crossing out the 5 to make it 4, borrowing one , the whole shebang. Incredible.
On the plus side, Kaleb really enjoyed sharing the fries.
Wednesday, January 18, 2006
Hmm
This kind of snuck up on me. I mean I knew Ice Cube has become one of Hollywood's favorite actors, with roles in movies as diverse as "Boyz In The Hood", "Friday", "Barbershop", "xXx: State of The Union" and "Are We There Yet", but on the drive home today, I was listening to BackSpin on Sirius, and was blasting "Check Yo Self" - a great song he did with Das EFX way back when.
How do you go from writing lyrics like:
"So chickity-check yo self before you wreck yo self
Come on and check yo self before you wrickity-wreck yo self
So chickity-check yo self before you wreck yo self
Cause big dicks up yo ass is bad for yo health"
or
"Mister, mister, before you make me go
I'm here to let you know your little girl is a hoe
Nympho, nympho, boy is she bad
Get her all alone and out comes the kneepads"
to starring in movies with little kids?
Mash 'em Up
My favorite - Led Snoopelin, "Drop It Like It's A Whole Lotta Love".
Spread the Word! Keep the promise to fight AIDS and poverty in '07
What could just one more penny of every dollar do? By giving an additional 1%, the U.S. would be able to help prevent 10 million children from becoming AIDS orphans and send 100 million children to grade school.
I've just sent a letter to President Bush asking him to keep the promises he made last year - will you join me? Go to www.one.org to send an email to the President.
Tuesday, January 17, 2006
Dumb Ass Award
Monday, January 16, 2006
MLK - 1/15/29 - 4/4/68
"Nonviolence is the answer to the crucial political and moral questions of our time; the need for mankind to overcome oppression and violence without resorting to oppression and violence. Mankind must evolve for all human conflict a method which rejects revenge, aggression, and retaliation. The foundation of such a method is love. "
MLK - December 11, 1964
Saturday, January 14, 2006
Let's see if this works - Meg DeRonghe, are you out there?
Thanks everyone.
Friday, January 13, 2006
Is San Diego in the House?

Los AbleMinded Poets will be rockin' the crowd from 8-8:45pm tonight at what looks to be a dope ass event in downtown San Diego. If you're here in SD, don't let the cold foggy weather bog you down and force you to stay inside. Get up, Get out and see something fresh and invigorating, stimulating your audio and visual senses.
MORE THAN MEETS THE EYE - AN ECLECTIC TASTE OF ART Opening Reception - Friday, January 13th - 7 to 10pm. A night of visual journeys through paintings, sculptures, installations and custom urban vynil by some of the best artist from Los Angeles, New York and San Diego. San Diego Visual Artists Guild Gallery 1099 9th Avenue, san diego, CA 92101 - (corner of 9th and C)Grafitti art show with a live performance from Los Able Minded Poets
www.pose2.com
www.manone.com
www.marka27.com
Thursday, January 12, 2006
Good Morning!
I'm in a very good mood this morning. I've got my cup of coffee and I'm listening to an incredible CD - "Inspiration Information" by Shuggie Otis. Listen, I talk about music here quite a bit, and I'm telling you, go buy this disc. It was originally released in 1974, and reissued 5 years ago. It's maybe the coolest disc you'll ever listen to. It was way ahead of it's time. Take 2 parts Sly, 1 part Prince, a pinch of the Isley Brothers, garnish with Maxwell, and you've got yourself a masterpiece! It's like a summer day when I was 6 or 7 years old - nothing but good times, not a care in the world. Or the audio equivalent of some really nice incense. Very relaxed and happy.
Wednesday, January 11, 2006
Amazing!
Poor Swannie
Saturday, January 07, 2006
Thursday, January 05, 2006
Wednesday, January 04, 2006
Tuesday, January 03, 2006
Hot Damn!
Fat Boys Are Back!!
My FW bought me Sirius Satellite radio for Christmas - a most excellent present. So many stations, so little time. Anyway, I'm back at work today and on the Backspin station (old school hip-hop), the Fat Boys are singing "In Jail". It's like I woke up back in high school! Gotta go, "Friends" by Whodini just came on!
Wednesday, December 28, 2005
Free Stuff is Great!


Getting free stuff is great, especially when you don't expect it. I ordered a pair of soccer boots around 3-4 weeks ago from a new company in Australia, Nomis. The founder used to design boots for Adidas and has started his own firm. Anyway, the boots arrived today, and with it was a letter from the company president, congratulating me on "winning one of the 32 FREE pair of Nomis boots that we have distributed today to an exclusive group of players from all over the world". My card has been credited the cost of the shoes!
As my favorite Alaskan would say, "Woot"!!
How's your holiday been so far?
Mine has been great! It started on Chistmas Eve- went to the 'skins - Giants game with my friend Jeremy (my FW got me the tickets for my birthday). It was awesome - beautiful weather (about 53 degrees at kick-off) and a Giant ass-kicking! Christmas morning, the FW and I drove to my sister's house for breakfast (pancakes, bacon, sausage, eggs, grits, coffee and mimosas) and to exchange presents with my sis, my niece Kennedy and my parents. Afterwards, we drove down to visit my mother-in-law and my FW's sisters and their families. More food and present sharing followed. And on Monday (Boxing Day to my family in Ontario and in London, St. Stephen's Day to our peeps in Dublin), we drove to Charlottesville to visit my Grandmother and my Mom's family. My cousin, Patches, is an incredible chef. He made dinner, which included and incredible roast eggplant soup. Just found out he may be headed to the Culinary Institute of America (CIA). Based on the soup alone, the boy should go!
I don't head back to work until January 3rd, so I am enjoying the time off, hanging out with my FW and her sister Vienna, who's in town from Chicago. Tomorrow, I'm taking a roadtrip with my Dad to visit his brother, Vance, who I haven't seen in years.
Saturday, December 24, 2005
Wednesday, December 21, 2005
Thanks
Tuesday, December 20, 2005
37!!
Monday, December 19, 2005
Finally!!
With the way broadcasters treat Favre these days -- and it's not just the Sunday night guys, it's everyone -- we may have to change the phrase "treating him with kid gloves" to "the Favre Treatment." For years now, Favre has basically been the white Aaron Brooks -- does all the same dumb things, makes the same dumb throws, snatches defeat from victory the same number of times, but puts up surprisingly good stats year after year. Only everyone piles on Brooks and makes excuses for Favre. Hmmmmm. I'd say more here, but I'm violating Scoop Jackson's Page 2 territorial rights.
By the way, in my "Top Gun/NFL" preview before the 2003 season, I gave Favre the quote, "Wait a second … you were in a 4G inverted dive with a MIG-28?" with the following explanation: To Brett Favre, firmly entrenched in the "Marino in the mid-'90s" stage of his career. In other words, he's just great enough to win some games on his own, not quite as great as he used to be, and unable to accept the fact that he isn't quite as great as he used to be. So he forces balls in big spots, tries to do too much, and invariably ends up killing the Packers against good teams. And it has been happening for three seasons now. And counting. Now we're wrapping up Year 6. And counting. I find this interesting.
I sent this to some of my buddies, including my little brother, Ken10. Ken10 and I have been having and e-mail war all day - he seems to think that I'm all about Aaron Brooks because Brooks went to UVa. My point wasn't that Brooks is great - it's that Favre hasn't been great for awhile. For all his stats, he's got exactly one Super Bowl win. The same number as Trent Dilfer and Brad Johnson. And that was way back in 1999. As my friends across the pond would say "he's won fuck-all since then".
Saturday, December 17, 2005
A moment to reflect

My 37th birthday is coming up next week, and like I do every year, I wonder "What the hell happened to my body"? Actually, I know what happened - way too much beer, and only playing sports once or twice a week. This pic is of me (on the right) almost 20 years ago, April of '86, during my final high school game. I was in damn good shape, and kept it up all the way through college and my early 20s. And then, metabolism slows down and my six pack became a keg. Not a full keg, mind you, but a nice pony keg. Now, instead of being built like the striker I once was, I'm built more like an NFL QB - 6ft. 4, 217 lbs.
Thursday, December 15, 2005
Wednesday, December 14, 2005
Ford Does The Right Thing
Ford announced that it will continue to support gay organizations and gay events in the coming year and beyond.
Ford is going to run advertisements in the gay media NOT ONLY promoting the Jaguar and Land Rover brands, but the ads will promote ALL of Fords brands, by name, including Jaguar and Land Rover.
Ford states unequivocally that it will continue to tailor its ads for the specific audience it is trying to reach, and then goes one step further. Ford challenges us to keep an eye out on their upcoming ads in order to verify that they will in fact be tailored.
Thursday, December 08, 2005
Human Rights Day

Today is International Human Rights Day, marking the U.N. General Assembly's adoption of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights on December 10, 1948.
Today, I marked Human Rights Day with hundreds of my brothers and sisters by picketing the White House. You see, workers in the United States still have to fight for their rights.
Article 23 of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights states:
Everyone has the right to work, to free choice of employment, to just and favourable conditions of work and to protection against unemployment.
Everyone, without any discrimination, has the right to equal pay for equal work.
Everyone who works has the right to just and favourable remuneration ensuring for himself and his family an existence worthy of human dignity, and supplemented, if necessary, by other means of social protection.
Everyone has the right to form and to join trade unions for the protection of his interests.
Workers in the U.S. have the right to form unions under the National Labor Relations Act, but some employers thwart their efforts through firings, intimidation and harassment. To strengthen protections for workers’ freedom to choose a union, a bipartisan coalition created the Employee Free Choice Act.
Introduced into Congress in April 2005, the act would:
require employers to recognize a union after a majority of workers sign cards authorizing union representation;
provide for mediation and arbitration of disputes that arise when management refuses to bargain a union's first contract; and
authorize stronger penalties for employers who violate the law when workers seek to form a union.
In honor of International Human Rights Day, show your commitment to our freedom to form unions as a fundamental human right. Ask President Bush to re-establish the United States as the world's leader in protecting human rights, including the freedom of all citizens of the world to form and join unions, and ask Congress to adopt the Employee Free Choice Act.
Ford Sucks Too
Dan Savage, a columnist and author I really like (you may have seen his "Savage Love" column in the City Paper), says the following:
HereÂs a list of Ford dealers (use the link to find your local dealer). Call them, tell them you're pissed. The "Built Ford Tough" boys collapsed into a puddle when the AFA assholes threatened them with a boycott. So let Ford know what you don't buy cars from companies that caves to right-wing hate mongers. And when the local dealers tell you that they didn't make this decision, tell them that's too bad. Tell them to scream and yell to Ford HQ and get this decision reversed, or you will never, ever consider buying a Ford.
And corporations can reverse themselves. Microsoft caved to right-wing Christian bullies, and then reversed itself. Tell them Ford can too. Tell them Ford better.
The FW and I have a Volvo, which is owned by Ford. I'm going out to buy a rainbow sticker today to put on our car. I'm also going to call Don Beyer Volvo and see what they have to say. Don Beyer was the former Lt. Governor of Virginia and headed up Howard Dean's fund raising efforts during the last campaign - he's a good Progressive and I doubt if he's very happy about this.
Tuesday, December 06, 2005
Shouldn't Today Be A National Holiday?
Monday, December 05, 2005
Hilary Sucks
is supporting new legislation to criminalize desecration of the United States flag _ though she still opposes a constitutional ban on flag attacks.
She'll obviously do anything for a vote.
Thursday, December 01, 2005
How do you
I used to hang out with a group of friends and had a major falling out with them about several years ago. I would go into detail about it, but I'm still not exactly sure what happened. I pissed them off, apparently, so much so that they pretty much cut off contact with me, but not until after one of them, who was my best friend at the time (best man at my 1st wedding, hung out with him all the time) told me I pretty much sucked.
Now, at the time, I was going through a pretty rough patch. Within the span of a little over a year, I was in a pretty serious accident, got divorced and lost my job. So I probably wasn't the best friend to have at the time. However, since then, I've gone through some pretty incredible personal changes, and feel I'm a much better person than I used to be. My ex-wife and I are on friendly terms - I would even say that we're friends, except I don't really see her or interact with her that much (though we do share the occasional e-mail). So I don't know why I haven't been able to reestablish contact with my former friends.
My relationship with them, looking back, was like a lot of my friendships growing up - I was pretty much a follower. There were 7 of us, including 2 couples. One dominant male personality, one dominant female, and the rest of us. We were very tight, though also very cliqueish. I often got into arguments with my ex-wife about them, she felt that they didn't like her and that I always took their side on any difficulties that arose (she was right, I totally took their side all the time).
I should clarify that and say that I do have a good relationship with one of them, Vicki, but it's more of an e-mail every few months, check-in kind of thing. The rest of them, nothing. I've tried e-mailing, inviting them to parties, baseball games, etc. Not a nibble. That's not exactly true. My former best friend responded to one of my e-mails (I sent a mass e-mail to everyone I knew, saying that I had a spare Nationals ticket and wanted to know if anyone wanted to go)with a really ugly response. It was pretty cryptic, actually, saying something along the lines of "some things are never forgotten nor forgiven". Whoa!! Let me reiterate that I never physically harmed, stole from, or anything else from him. I have no idea where the vitriol comes from. The last thing he said to me was that I wasn't honest with them during my divorce. I'm not sure what exactly I was supposed to have been honest about - my wife and I had some serious issues, neither of us were equipped to deal with it, and we broke up (it's a lot more complicated than that, but you get the idea). If the 2 of us were able to deal with it, move on, and remain friendly, then WTF is going on with my former friends? My response to him was basically this -
Dude, I'm sorry you feel this way, but I've moved on with my life, have a great wife and family, awesome friends, and just wanted to go to a baseball game. Sorry you feel that way. Take care of yourself.
I told my little brother about it, and he was probably more pissed than I was. I had to talk him out of calling my old friend up and cussing him out.
My circle of friends has grown immensely since the break-up with my old crew, and one may wonder why I feel this need to reconnect. I guess it's partially closure, partially a genuine concern about what's going on their lives.
Christ, this has been one long, rambling post. Lucky for me hardly anyway reads this, eh?
I love this game!
Sunday, November 27, 2005
Big Brother is watching
Tuesday, November 22, 2005
Withdrawal?
CAIRO, Egypt -- Reaching out to the Sunni Arab community, Iraqi leaders called for a timetable for the withdrawal of U.S.-led forces and said Iraq's opposition had a "legitimate right" of resistance.
Monday, November 21, 2005
My New Ride

In addition to having a date with my niece on Saturday, I also bought a new car. It's a Saab 9-5, my 2nd Saab. I've loved Saabs since I was a kid, mainly because they looked different. I had an old 900S for a few years, but got rid of it last year, it got to the point that it was just expensive to care for. I bought it used and it had major problems from Day 1. I had to redo the entire wiring for the car, get a new clutch, brakes, etc. The final straw was when the radiator cracked. No wonder the previous owner laughed as I drove off. Anyway, the 9-5 is a really nice car, easily the nicest car I've ever owned. What's funny is that the FW and I are now stereotypical liberals - mixed marriage, working for non-profits, driving a Volvo and a Saab.
Fun Weekend
Thursday, November 17, 2005
The Pot and the Kettle
"subverting democratic institutions by using them to restrict the rights of those who disagree with it, slowly undermining economic freedoms and rejecting the opportunities of globalization"
Newly appointed Assistant Secretary of State Thomas Shannon said that Chavez was centralizing power in the executive and politicizing the judiciary. Um, HELLO!! What the fuck is your boss doing, stupid-ass?
"The impact on the civic, political and economic life of the country is evident in increased self censorship by the media, lack of public confidence in the electoral system, reluctance to express disagreement with government policies for fear of retribution and capital flight," Shannon said.
In a classic example of irony, Vice President "Dick" Cheney said earlier this week that the suggestion that Americans were misled on pre-war intelligence was "one of the most dishonest and reprehensible charges ever aired in this city". He added: "The president and I cannot prevent certain politicians from losing their memory or their backbone. But we're not going to sit by and let them rewrite history."
Wednesday, November 16, 2005
Tuesday, November 15, 2005
Let's get together and end this.
This week, Congress will decide how much America will contribute toward an important international effort called the Global Fund to Fight AIDS, TB and Malaria.
Let’s keep up the positive pressure: Please email Congress today and ask their support for $100 million in the Labor-HHS Appropriations Bill for the Global Fund-- an effort that fights back against three killer diseases and encourages other countries to do their share.
Please make the message as personal as you like -- these officials need to know that people from their hometowns, the people they represent, want them to help.
Tuesday, November 08, 2005
Welcome Maya!!
Monday, November 07, 2005
I'm back
Tomorrow is a huge day in Virginia, Election Day. Vote for Kaine, you'll be happy you did!








